Monday, March 12, 2007

I was about to be kidnapped

This is based on a true story :
Many many MANY things happene in Amman but No one sees… girls are not safe no more without the cell phones .. people may use ur kindness and politeness so that they can hurt u …
This story happened with me … and el7amdellah ejat salema .. but till now I feel unsecured to walk a lone in the street …
Once I was walking in Alreyadah St. … I wasn't alone … my elder sis was with me … there was a man following us .. he didn't look like following us but later on we discovered that he was.. anyway … he was making sounds and to be honest I didn't give a dam to him … I didn't notice his strange behavior .. I thought eno ok Bara2 nothing gonna happened in this street l2no there were many guys next to Mojama3 el ameer Rashed la el karate … when we arrived to a point where no one could see .. I mean it's a corner between Al-Madenah St. and the sport St. he attacked me .. and I felt eno something very strong hold me tightly and that happened in a few seconds..
What I was thinking of is that this may be someone I know .. like my father or brother or anyone … I was denying the truth I couldn't believe .. and believe it or not I wasn't afraid in that particular moment coz I couldn’t aslan believe that it is true … and I felt like it's the best time to think before it's too late … my sis and I started to beat him so I could run away but he was too strong … and one another car is about to arrive .. my sis shout "" Bara2, what are u doing?? Kick him … this is so real … we have to escape the other men are coming "" in this moment I realized what was happening … mafee wa2et to be shocked …. I kicked him .. me myself and I don’t know how .. but that just happened … and I wanted to take a look at him before his partners arrive so I turned my face toward him and I was about to cry .. but I didn’t want him to see how weak I was so I kept on looking at him while I was walking toward the guys who witnessed everything but arrived late .. and when I felt I'm secure … he entered his car and passed me by … I looked at him in the eyes and he run away ….
This is soooooo true … and it happened with many girls I know … I couldn’t believe myself … I was 19 years old … I know enha ejat saleeme .. but still I wasn't able to go out the door for one month …I couldn’t sleep for many days .. I used to cry at night .. I felt how weak I'm .. how dangerous this situation was …
Believe it or not :
This didn’t take ela less than one min struggling him and 5 min 2 arrive home safely … I wonder eno kef kol hal2fkar ejtne in a few sec…
Now I don’t trust anyone even if I know that he maybe right … 5alas ba3mal ele beray7ne …
EL7AMDOLLEH MALYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOON MARA

21 comments:

Mrs. Al Ramahi said...

oh my God! Honestly that is really scary.. I don't dare to walk alone in an empty street.. It should always be full of lights and people.. Allah satarha ma3ek..Take care :)

MQabbani said...

WOW

well , to me i really get angry for this , many times happen that be in the same st. with girl walking alone ,i keep an eye on her especially if there guys (7afartl ) same st.
alot if time beda5al , i hate that ...
well i have 4 sis's so akter 7asas la heak she

abu_shakuush said...

7amdelah 3ala el salameh, you have to be careful now a days there are lots of crazy people out there, maybe you should learn some kind karate to be able to defend your self too, or maybe next time you should aim were it will hurt guys the most, you know were, right:-)

bara2 said...

Mrs. al rama7e:
ya that is sooooooo scary .. but the street wasn't empty and i wasn't alone :P ....

Mqabbani:9a7??? benarfezok ..
and about the part " I keep an eye on her " Shaheeeem ...

Abu Shakush:
allah ysalmak thank u ... ya i learned a lesson ... and ya Grazy ... he is Grazy w mareed ...
u won't believe abu elshawakesh .. nowadays .. bmshe w ede 3la kabset "call" la7ta if anything happened i press on it ... someone will know that there is something wrong ... habal i know .. bs el5OOOOOOF ....

Naryat said...

El7amdellah 3alsalameh :-)
Deeri balik 3a7alik kteer weldonya abadaaaan mesh aman...
W Qabbani Bless you coz u take care of girlz... :-)

Mala2e6 said...

براء

و انا عم بقرأ و عارفة انه القصة خلصت خفت عليكي كتير

بتعرقي نحنا مشكلتنا انه مش مدربين لنواجه المواقف اللي بتتطلب رد فعل سريع

انا كنت افكر كل ما اشوف فيلم انه كيف البطلة هبلة و ما عرفت تتصرف و انا بقولها ولك اضربية ولك يا هبلة اركضي

لما يصير الموقف معنا متل ما قلتي منتجمد من المفاجاة

مرة كننا عند ناس و كان في عرس بتعرفي الرصاص لعلع مع اننه ممنوع و نحنا مش قريبين يعني بيتهم عالرووف و قاعدين لا لينا ولا علينا ولا الرصاص صار فوقنا و يضر ب بحديد التراس و الكل انبطاح الا محسوبتك
قعدت ساعة لاستوعبت شو صار

عن جد لو في برامج تدريبية لهيك مواقف انا اول وحدة بتروح
اكتشفت اني بطوّل لاتصرف

الحمد الله على سلامتك و تنزكر ما تنعاد

bara2 said...

Naryat:
welcome w sahlan sharftena
w shokran sweety now i know that eldonya mo aman ... b3d ma jarbtet halmaw2ef..
thank u 4 passing by :P

bara2 said...

هههههههههههههههههههههههه
كالعادة كل شي مفيد بطريقة مضحكة...
معك حق يا ملائط.. البنات هالايام لازم يكونو مدربين .. قولي انا كانت عندي خلفية عن كيف ادافع حالي لاني كتير بحضر اوبرا ... بس فعلا بلحظة الحدث ما استوعبت مع انو انا بمتل هاي المواقف عادة بكون هادية وبفكر بس هون والله ما بعرف شو صار فكرت بالنهاية بس اول ثواني كان ياخدني على السيارة مابعرف حسيت فكري مشلول وشغلة الرصاس هاي .. سلامتك ماحدا بستوعب غير لينطخ العريس
وع قولك: تنزكر ما تنعاد
هاي اول مرة برجع بحكيها من هداك الوقت يا ملائط..

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Bos6ar Gadeem said...

7amdilla 3al salameh

You should have been more concentrated and just took the car plate number ..

As 7abil ghaseeel ( i mean malga6 ghaseel) said .. we .. boys and girls .. are not rained to behave right in such situations .. don't wait for him to attack you .. stalking itself is a crime !! and once you suspected his behavior, you should have taken some action. Inshallah it not happen again.

whatever happens .. you should not be afraid to walk in the street because of few sick people.

bara2 said...

Bos6ar gadeeeem:
hala Mr. Bos6ar Gadeem ... shaklo bos6arak 3aif 7alo..(:
anyway .. m3k 7a2 ana kan lazm ene atsaraf mojarad ma 7aseet eno he'll attack bs i swear eno kolshe sar bsor3a w mn don ma akon wa3ya .. w really it's so hard to think correctly in these setuations ... w m3akom 7a2 ... girls and boys should have a demanded course about how to act in such setuation.

Abed Hamdan said...

ops!!!

el7amdellah 3asalamtek..Allah satarek wallah !!!


last year kanat my mother o banat 5aali maashyeen bl shari3...zalame na6 o 7awal yosro2 her bag..ma3 ennu my mother 5aweefee kteer bas she didn't let her back, msh bas haik...she beat him!!

yallah deero baalkom...wallah msh aman abadan!! walah 7atta 3al guys!

bara2 said...

Abed:
abeeeeeeeeeeeed ..allah ysalmak .. thanx
kman my mother had lost her bag ... she get hurt i mean da3asoha w sara2o elshanta w masho .. mama masarelha she bs rdod w jro7 in her head .. bs hada 2bel elmaw2ef ele sarele besana ... 3ade 7anewsal lamar7ala kol benet ykon 3ndha e2sa te7keha :P

Bos6ar Gadeem said...

3ashan ana 3ayf 7aly kaman :)

bara2 said...

bos6ar gadeem:
mo aktar mne... :(

Life said...

first 7amdellah 3al salameh.
second Bravo 3aliki o you must not say that you are weak because you are not.. you are a brave young lady.

after I read this I started to belive that we need to spread more awarness in this country about self-defence and protective stratagies people must learn.

girl.. again you are a strong lady.. trust in that.. and god bless

bara2 said...

Life:
you are so sweet thank u .. u have no clue how much rafa3te ma3naweyate ... and yes i should feel strong inside so everyone would feel it too.
i agree with u ... people here mo msta3deen lametel hek she.. i think e7na bzmn m5ef w elbnat lazm ydero balhom 3la 7alhm aktr ...lazm na5od 7esas maybe in our schools or uni..
againe.. thank u sweety 4 passing by
bless u

Maioush said...

alf 7amdella 3ala salamtek Bara2, my god I felt so scared reading it, jad 7amdella 3ala el salameh, if I were you, I would start some self defense class, really.. I did it when I first moved to the states, you never know what’s waiting for you, they teach you how to move, how to escape, where to hit, and most importantly; how to react fast .. allah ye7meeki dear
P.s: thanks for adding me to your blogroll that’s so sweet :)

bara2 said...

Maioush:
allah ysalmek 7bebte .. w hada elsa7 .. lazm a5od dros .. bs 3arfa?? fe kter baramj 3la el TV taech u how react and act quickly, how to move what to do .. i started watching them really they are good like Opra show .. and others .
thank u for passing by ...

Ta2e3 said...

oh my God, this is horrible, we can't believe it. be carefull
and 7amdella 3ala salamtek

bara2 said...

ta2e3:
thank u 4 passing by .. and for sure i'll take care ... :)